Vacationing with a baby: Part 4: How to ‘do an all inclusive’ like a pro

All inclusive vacations are awesome when you have a little one. For me the biggest thing I am looking for on vacation is to rest my brain. I don’t want to think about groceries, laundry, breakfast, lunches and drinks. If I did I would just stay home! We have been on three different all inclusive trips to different parts of Mexico since Zara was born. Over the past 2 (almost 2) years of traveling with Zara I have learnt a thing or two about how to ‘do an all inclusive ‘ with a baby.  Here are my tips:

  1. Get direct flights: Yes sometimes it’s cheaper to get connecting flights. And yes sometimes it doesn’t look that bad with an hour or two layover. Trust me when I say it is not worth it. We took one trip, where we had an hours stop over on a return flight. Zara was 9 months. It was pretty stressful. So keep things simple and say no layovers!
  2. Book a resort close to the airport: Out of the three all inclusive resorts we stayed at, the last one was 10 min from the airport. It made a huge difference. When we got to the resort we felt like we didn’t lose a day traveling. We were also able to have a pretty quick and smooth ride back to the airport on our return.
  3. Book a small resort: This is pretty crucial with kids. You don’t want to spend all your time walking to the beach or lunch and dinner. You just want to get there. You also want to be close enough so you can run to the room if you need anything. 
  4. Kids club:This is a must have. The first two resorts we went to had kids clubs, but Zara was too young to go. The last resort had a kids club and babies club. I checked the ages and reviews before we went and parents raved about the care. Zara had a safe fun place to go for a couple of hours, so that mommy and daddy could relax on the beach.
  5. How to eat at the buffet– A lot of people complain about the food at all inclusive resorts. I have a tip for this. Go for the fresh grill stations. Every all inclusive resort I have been to has them. Also, do not be tempted to fill your plate with everything. Pick a couple of items. You are going to be there for at least a week so you don’t want to get bored with the food.
  6. Room with a view and patio: I have mentioned this in my previous post. Pay the extra money and get a room with a view. On the last trip we spent a lot of time hanging out on the patio with a cider/wine at the end of the night while Zara was sleeping. 

I would love to hear what tips worked for you mommas on an all inclusive vacation. Please feel free to share my post and comment below. 

Next week I will be doing a review of the all inclusive resort we stayed at on our last trip. Stay tuned! 

Happy Vacationing! 

Vacationing with a baby Part 3: The 4 must haves to pack when leaving the country with a baby

Last week I talked about how to have a ‘real relaxing’ vacation with kids. This week I am going to share with you what I pack when I am leaving the country. Sometimes being away from home makes it harder to relax because you are away from the comforts of home. I am also a worry wart and tend to play worst case scenarios in my head. So to cope with my anxiety I try to be ‘extra’ prepared. I have had people laugh at me for packing certain things when I travel. But these things have saved me more than once. So today I am sharing with you my top 4 must haves when I travel outside the country. 

  1. Medication– Before I travel I always make a doctors appointment and let them know I am traveling. I ask for prescriptions for any common ailments. When you are traveling with a baby, the number one common ailment is ear infections. I get a prescription for antibiotics for ear infection before I leave. At the pharmacy I let them know that I will be traveling and the medication is for emergency use. The pharmacist is able to give me the medication in powder form as well as a bottle of distilled water. If you need to use it, you just mix it and use it. My doctor recommended that I carry this with me when I fly outside the country. The first couple of times I flew outside the country I did not have to use this. However this last time, I actually ended up using the medication and it was a life saver! In addition to this I also always carry baby Tylenol or baby Advil. 
  2. Pack and play: The first two times we travelled, outside the country we did not take our pack and play with us. We were in Mexico both times and were able to get them at the resorts we stayed at. These pack and plays were pretty worn out. However this last time I brought it with me and it was so much better. Babies like familiar spaces. Zara loved sleeping in her own pack and play. Bonus, you can also check in a pack and play for free as a baby item when you fly. 
  3. Stroller: We have a City mini GT stroller and we love it. It is great on all terrain and folds flat. I have flown with it 4 times. I thought about buying an umbrella stroller just for traveling, but this stroller is so handy and has a little basket which is big enough for a small dog ( my 20 pound pug rides in it). It also has a recline feature and Zara was able to nap in it while we were out for a stroll. So a stroller is definitely a must have for me when I fly outside the country. It is also free to gate check.
  4.  Playtex bottles with liners: If your baby is still taking a bottle, Playtex bottles with liners are great to travel with. The liners are sterilized and  you don’t have to worry about washing bottles. This is especially a concern if you are in a country where tap water is unsafe to drink. This way all you do is rinse the nipple with bottled water and some dish soap. And now you have more time to relax by the pool! 

Tune in next week for Vacationing with a Baby Part 4: How to ‘do’ an all inclusive like a pro. 

I would love to hear what is in your bags mommas. Happy Vacationing! 

Ps- I am posting some vacations pictures below from our most recent trip to Peurto Vallarta. I will be writing a blog post about our trip soon.

My Canadian story: Happy Canada Day

I am an immigrant. I moved to Canada in 1998 with my parents. I was 16. We came to Canada with a couple of suitcases and nothing else. We did not know anyone here. We were excited but scared. My parents are from India but I grew up in the Middle East, so there was a big culture shock. But this country welcomed us. When we arrived at YVR, we picked up our suitcases and grabbed a cab. Our intention was to stay at a hotel/motel and figure things out from there. The cab driver, asked us where we wanted to go and my dad told him to take us to a nearby hotel/motel as we did not know anyone. He looked at us and said, ‘Now you do. I have a house that has a vacant basement suite. I can rent it to you. You can live there.’ He did not know us and we did not know him. My dad did not have a job. But he took us in. His wife made us dinner when we got there. We lived there for almost a year. 

This is the generosity of the Canadian people. Today I celeberated Canada day  at Wesbrook Village, with my family, alongside thousands of other Canadians. We had fun in the splash park, and grabbed a hotdog. There was a 5k and 10k run for adults and a 1k run for kids (which I did not get a chance to participate in). In the community center there was a map of the world and people put stickers on to show where they are ‘originally’ from. It made me think of this story and where I came from. 

This country has given me opportunities that I would have never gotten. Yes we are not perfect, but who is. I am proud to call myself Canadian. Happy 150th Birthday Canada!

Vacationing with a baby: Part Two: How to have a ‘real relaxing’ vacation with a baby

Summer has officially started. Schools are done for the year and everyone is dreaming about vacations! Last week I shared tips on how to fly with a baby. This week I am going to talk about what to do when you get there! Vacationing with a baby is tough. I often hear from mommas, that they would much rather just stay at home as vacationing with a baby is exhausting. I am not going to lie, that can be true. However I do believe that taking ‘time off’ is good for the babes as well as mommas and daddy’s. Since Zara was born we’ve been on three Mexico vacations, once to Montreal and multiple road trips around BC. Here are some tips that worked for us to have a ‘real relaxing’ vacation: 

1. Consistent Baby Schedules: Zara has always liked some consistency in her schedule. So when we do travel, we try to follow the same schedule as best we can. We generally keep naps and bedtimes consistent. I don’t mean follow the schedule to a ‘T’. There are times when Zara has napped in a stroller or car seat. We have pushed bedtimes a little later if we had a special event to attend. Babies can be very adaptable. It just takes a little bit of planning. If you are in a different time zone, it will take a couple of days for the kiddo to adjust. I always allow Zara to wake up naturally and then base naps and bedtimes off of that. Watch for sleepy cues. If they are starting to get cranky, it is time for some downtime. Keep your bedtime and nap routine consistent. Bring sheets from home for a pack and play or crib. The key here is to remember you are away from home and it’s ok if baby has two naps instead of one, or sleeps in a stroller. You deserve this vacation, so try to go with the flow. 

2. Get a room with a view and patio: I highly recommend this! With a baby you will be spending more time in the room than you usually do. Splurge a bit for a view or a patio. When babe is napping or down for the night, this will be your sanctuary. Perfect for sharing a glass of wine with your  hubby/partner at the end of the day! 

3. Try to always book a suite if possible: This is always my first option. You will need that second room so that you are not tip toeing around in the dark when baby is napping or down for the night. I have heard of some parents eating dinner in the bathroom after putting the babe down!! So here is my suggestion: If a suite is not available put the pack and play in bathroom! No your child is not sleeping on the bathroom floor. No it is not unsanitary. We have done this multiple times and it has worked like a charm. If you need to use the bathroom while the baby is sleeping, use the one in the lobby. 

4. De-stress: Bring a book, stock the room with your favourite drinks and snacks. Wine in the room? Yes please!Order room service? Definitely! Let’s be honest, like I said before you WILL spend tons of time in the room. Make the most of it! 

5. If babysitting service is available use it: A lot of hotels and resorts have certified babysitters that you can use for a night out. Another great idea is to go with friends who also have kids. We did this a couple of times and took turns babysitting so Momma and Dada can have a night out. 

6. Don’t over plan: Try to do one activity a day. This is crucial. Vacationing with a little one or two is tough but doable. Remember that a tired babe is a cranky babe and cranky babe means a very cranky Momma and Dada. So plan for one activity a day and tons of downtime. Trust me you will need it! 

Stay tuned next week for more Vacationing with a baby: Part 3

Happy Canada Day! I hope these tips will come in handy if you are away for the long weekend! Feel free to share tips and tricks that have worked for you while vacationing with a baby.

View from room on Mexico trip #1
View from room Mexico trip #2
View from room Mexico Trip #3
View from room Mexico trip #3
Pack and play bathroom set up. Works like a charm! This was in Mexico and it was HOT but cooler in the bathroom for babe.
Best part about Vacations: Making memories to last a lifetime!

Vacationing with a baby: Part one: How to fly with a baby

Summer is upon us and with that summer vacations. The next couple of posts are going to be dedicated to how to vacation with a baby. Yes it can be scary and nerve wracking. But if you like to travel like I do, don’t let having a baby stop you. Let’s start with how to fly with a baby. 

I have flown with Zara 4 times since she was born. The first time she was 5 months old. The second time she was 9 months. The third time she was 10 months. And the last time, was most recently at 21 months. All flights were about 5 hours or so. Over time I have learnt a thing or two about flying with babies. The younger the babies are the easier it is to fly with them. So I have created a list of some helpful tips. 

Here it goes:

  1. Carrying baby: Wear your baby. The first 3 times we flew (ages 5 months, 9 months and 10 months) I wore her in the Ergo. The great thing was my hands were free and I could feed myself, which is always a bonus!
  2. Feeding baby: Feeding the baby can by tricky on the plane. I was still breastfeeding her at that time so it made it easy to breastfeed during take off and landing (to prevent ear infections and helps with the ‘ear popping’ while wearing her in the Ergo.  You can you tube how to breastfeed baby in the ergo for some tips and tricks. It was a little tricky at first, but once I got the hang of it, it was amazing. If you don’t feel comfortable breastfeeding in the Ergo that’s fine too. Feel free to use a cover or not if you are comfortable. I had a lot of anxiety about feeding Zara when she was a baby. I didn’t know how it was going to go. I brought bottles of ready to go formula just in case. Baby food pouches are also great. Milk is also complimentary on most flights. Every flight I was on, allowed us to bring food and milk for the baby.
  3.  Sleeping baby: Again I am big fan of the Ergo here. Zara napped on me in the Ergo. You can also request a baby bassinet seat when you check in. Bonus you get more leg room as it is in the front of the plane. The bassinet was great for us on a late flight. Zara was able to lie down for a bit and mommy and daddy were able to relax.
  4. Entertainment: When Zara was younger this was a lot easier. I took her favourite toys and books. For the last flight we were on, this did not cut it. We brought an iPad with her favourite Netflix shows. Netflix now allows you to download shows and you do not need wifi to play them. This was such a lifesaver!


Overall flying with a baby is not so bad. Yes sometimes they get cranky or poop three times in an hour (true story!). Just be flexible and do what you need to do. Initially I used to worry about annoying other passengers with her crying. But, through all my travels, I have not met a single passenger that told me to get my baby to stop crying. Everyone knows that you are doing best. And hey if you do meet that odd cranky passenger, I say hand them the crying baby and see what happens! 🙂

I would love to hear what worked for you when flying with little ones. Feel free to comment below. 

Bon voyage mommas and Happy travel!

Stay tuned for next weeks blog post on Vacationing with baby: part two: How to have a ‘real relaxing’ vacation with a baby

PS- This is not a sponsored post. This post is based solely on my experience and opinions

Happy Dada Day: A tribute to my husband

Happy Father’s Day to all the ‘dadas’ today! I wanted to repost this blog post I posted a couple of months ago as a tribute to my husband Rj. Rj, the moment Zara was born, you took on the Dada responsibilities with great pride. You gave her her first bath and changed her very first diaper. You spent countless nights rocking her to sleep. We have had our ups and downs and at times when I wavered you did not.  You are an amazing and wonderful Dada to our daughter and I couldn’t have asked for a better partner to share this parenting adventure with! Happy Dada day Rj! 

No one talks about the dads. Us moms get a lot of credit, and we deserve it, but what about the dads?

Yes moms our lives change when we see the pink lines on the pregnancy test. Then our bodies change and keep changing for 9 or 10 months ( feels more like a year). And then the day comes, the baby is born. You are now responsible for this little life and your world is turned upside down!

Dad, I want to give you credit. You deserve it too. Your body did not change ( there is the ‘dad bod’) but you did not give birth, but you were there through it all. You where there holding your wife’s hand when she took the pregnancy test. You were there when her body changed. You rubbed her back. Made her breakfast, lunch and dinner. Rubbed her sore feet. Helped her tie her shoes when she could no longer see her feet. You were there in the room to hold her hand when the contractions came. And you were there when your baby came into this world. And your world changed. You also felt an overwhelming sense of love and need to protect this little person.


Your life changed. Maybe not exactly the same way as your wife/partner. But it definitely changed. You have given up things too. Your time that was spent tinkering around the garage or washing your car, is now spent running after a little one in the park. When she falls and calls for ‘dada’, you scoop her up, kiss her ‘ouchie’ and promise to never let her fall again. Dads, do you wish sometimes you could go back to your old life? Of course you do. You are only human. But then you hear her call you ‘dada’ and your heart melts. I know you would choose this over spending time going to the gym or going fishing. And, it’s ok to miss it and feel the ‘daddy blues’. I know you think you have to be strong for the family, but sometimes showing vulnerability is a sign of strength. Only the strongest of men have the ability to show emotions. So, go ahead, shed a tear for the loss of your old life. Us moms do. I will not you judge you for it. It does not mean you love your baby less. You have the right to feel the way you do. You are a great dad regardless! 

Thank you to my followers and Highlights from VMTOP30 party

Last night I attended the Top 30 Vancouver Mom blogger party and I wanted to share a couple of highlights of the event with everyone. 

I also wanted to thank everyone that follows me on WordPress, Facebook, Twitter and Instagram. Thank you for reading my blog, supporting me and voting for me. And thank you Vancouvermom for selecting me to be part of the Top 30 for 2017.

I started writing because I felt I had a lot of bottled up feelings of being a new first time mom. I felt alone and needed an outlet. I wanted to write everything down to get it out. It was almost like a cleansing excercise. Every time I wrote a post, I felt better. When I made the decision to share my blog, I was terrified of the what kind of response I was going to get. I was pleasantly surprised that people were reading what I was writing and perhaps relating to it. 

This has been quite a journey  and I can’t wait to see where else this takes me. I have met some wonderful mom bloggers through this that have inspired me to keep writing. 

For now I am taking a short break from social media. We are flying to Mexico tomorrow for a much needed family vacation. See you when I get back! 

Highlights from last night:

All dressed up for the party!
Hycroft Manor. What a beautiful venue!
Swag bags!
Look at those pillars! I felt like a princess!
Hanging out with fellow mom bloggers!!
Fashion show!! All the dresses are made from Hemp
More fashion show
My swag bag! Follow me on instagram @husna_theaccidentalmommy to check out what’s in my swag bag.
Facial? Yes please! Thank you Skoah!